Is “Appreciate sb to do” Correct?
No. In standard English, we do not say “I appreciate you to do something.” This structure is grammatically incorrect.
The correct pattern is:
I appreciate you doing something.We appreciate your helping us.
Correct Structure
The verb appreciate is followed by a noun or a gerund (verb + -ing), not an infinitive (to do).
- ✅ I appreciate your taking the time to help.
- ✅ She appreciates him being honest.
- ❌ I appreciate you to take the time. (Incorrect)
Why This Matters
Using the correct form shows fluency and respect for standard grammar. While native speakers might occasionally slip, learners should aim for accuracy—especially in writing or formal contexts.
Common Alternatives
If you want to use an infinitive, consider these alternatives:
Thank you for helping me.I’m grateful that you helped.I’d like you to help me. (request, not appreciation)